The Christmas I Was Told I Didn’t Belong

Isabella.

I let it ring twice before answering.

“Dennis,” she said sweetly. “I heard there was a misunderstanding.”

“A misunderstanding?” I repeated evenly.

“My parents are traditional,” she continued. “They expect a certain… atmosphere.”

“And what atmosphere would that be?”

I heard shopping bags rustling in the background.

“Well,” she said lightly, “they’re not used to your cooking. The spices. The music. They’re educated people. They expect intellectual conversation.”

Eight years of swallowed insults rose up like bile.

“The food you ate every Sunday when money was tight?” I asked calmly.
“The tamales you said reminded you of your grandmother?”

“That was different.”

“Because now your parents are around,” I said. “And you don’t want the Mexican peasant embarrassing you.”

Her voice hardened.

“This isn’t about race,” she snapped. “It’s about class.”

Then she mentioned Maria.

That was the moment everything ended.

I hung up without another word.

I opened the folder I’d avoided for months.

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