My daughter asked me to cover her wedding

“You were gambling on gifts to pay for a house you can’t afford?” I asked, incredulous. “Vanessa, you are thirty years old. This isn’t a mistake; this is fraud.”

“You’re so dramatic,” she scoffed. “Just write a check, Dad. Fix it. You always fix it. If you don’t, I’ll be homeless, and that will look great for your reputation, won’t it?”

That was the moment something snapped. Not my temper, but the cord of guilt I had been holding onto since her mother died. I realized I hadn’t been helping her; I had been crippling her.

“No,” I said quietly.

The room went silent. Vanessa blinked. “What?”

“No,” I repeated. “I am not writing a check. I am not fixing this. You want to live like a grown woman? Then you will face the consequences like one.”

“But… the house,” she gasped. “They’ll take it.”

“Then let them take it,” I said. “You didn’t buy it anyway. You rented it with a down payment you stole.”

She turned to Marcus, eyes pleading. “Marcus, baby, tell him. We need this house.”

Marcus looked at her, and I saw the heartbreak in his eyes. He took a slow breath. “I’m done, Vanessa. The wedding is off.”

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