Online, especially on Reddit and queer wikis, people describe relief at finally finding a word that mirrors their experience: “Now I don’t have to pick,” one person said, “because berri fits like a glove.” Others stress that no one is required to adopt micro-labels; they’re tools, not tests. Yet for those who’ve spent years feeling “not quite right” in existing boxes, berrisexual offers something powerful: language that doesn’t just tolerate their nuance, but honors it.