1. Don’t Meet Their Negativity With Your Own
It’s tempting to lash out, return the sarcasm, or fall into the same pattern. Don’t. That only fuels their behavior.
Protect your peace by staying grounded. As Jung said, “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.”
2. Set Clear Emotional Boundaries
Limit your exposure. Don’t explain or apologize for preserving your peace.
Healthy boundaries are not cruel — they’re a form of emotional self-care, especially as we age and grow wiser.
3. Stop Trying to Fix Them
You cannot love someone into healing their envy. You cannot reason someone out of resentment.
If they hate you — even secretly — it’s their battle to fight, not yours.
You’re not responsible for their inner world.
4. Face Them, If You Feel Safe Doing So
Sometimes, clarity comes from a conversation.
If you sense tension, and feel safe, you can ask:
“Is something bothering you between us?”
You may not get honesty, but at least you’ve broken the silence. And sometimes, that opens the door for necessary distance or healing.
